Many Christian women have been taught to be patient, understanding, and slow to anger. Those are beautiful qualities. However, somewhere along the way, patience turned into emotional over-functioning.
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What “Understanding Me” Looks Like in Relationships
One of the things I’ve noticed over the years is how often we confuse love with understanding. We assume that if someone cares about us, they should naturally get us. That shared history, proximity, or time spent together should somehow translate into emotional insight.
I Give More Than I Receive: The Emotional Cost of Proving You Are Enough
In your closest relationships, you often give more than you receive. Not because anyone explicitly demands it, but because it feels natural to you. Responsible. Like the loving thing to do.
Dealing with Rejection: When People Say “You Think You’re Better Than Everyone”
You would assume that as you get healthier, the people who love you would cheer the loudest. But often, the opposite happens. It’s the one I hear constantly in my therapy sessions. It isn’t the pain of the trauma itself;…
When Clarity Feels Just Out of Reach: Trusting God One Step at a Time
This Week’s Theme: Clarity Clarity is one of those things we all pray for, especially when we’re in transition or facing something that just doesn’t make sense. We want to be sure. We want to get it right. And if…
When Lies Speak Louder Than Truth
Hey there, I pray all is well. I came across a comment on Facebook that said, “Unfortunately, the truth will not be as loud as the lies.” It stopped me in my tracks. The thread was full of people responding…
