You said you wouldn’t say “yes” again when you really meant “no.”You told yourself you were done over-explaining.You promised not to twist yourself into a people-pleasing pretzel trying to avoid conflict. But here you are. Again. Sound familiar? Let me…
That Time a Birthday Cake Became a Lesson in Giving Up Control
What a birthday cake taught me about control, boundaries, and letting love truly listen.
Root or Fruit? Why What’s Showing Up Might Not Be What Needs Fixing
Have you ever wondered why the same issue keeps showing up in your life, just dressed differently? One week it’s procrastination. Another week it’s overwhelm. Sometimes it’s people-pleasing, and other times it’s that inner critic telling you you’re not enough….
Are You Trusting the Right Source? Why Seeking People’s Approval Can Hold You Back
Have you ever hesitated to take action because you were waiting for someone else’s approval?
Maybe you’ve had a great idea, a clear calling, or a strong conviction in your heart, but instead of moving forward, you paused waiting for confirmation from people. You wanted validation before giving yourself permission to obey God.
Why Individuals Feel Emotionally Unsafe in Relationships
Have you ever rehearsed a conversation in your head over and over, only to decide it’s not worth the risk of saying it out loud? Or maybe you’ve convinced yourself that keeping the peace is safer than speaking your truth because past experiences have taught you that honesty leads to criticism, dismissal, or even emotional distance. If that sounds familiar, it makes sense that you’d feel emotionally unsafe, hesitant to open up, unsure of how you’ll be received, and exhausted from carrying it all inside.
The Hidden Costs of Loving Hard: When Love Takes Too Much
Love is a beautiful gift from God, meant to be deep, fulfilling, and life-giving. But when you love hard, it can come with a cost. Many people wear “loving hard” like a badge of honor, pouring everything into a relationship, giving their whole heart, and holding nothing back.
