I’m finishing up my doctorate program in Christian Counseling and Psychology, and while studying, the mention of the hydrologic cycle (we learned about it in 3rd grade) got me thinking. As I read how water rises, falls, collects, and evaporates,…
Uncertainty Isn’t the Enemy. Disobedience Is
There’s something we don’t talk about enough: the difference between uncertainty and disobedience. Most people assume they’re being cautious, prayerful, or wise by staying still when things feel unclear. But sometimes, we’re not waiting on God, we’re stalling on Him. There’s a subtle difference between trusting God with our next steps and avoiding obedience because we’re afraid of what those steps might cost us.
When You’re Waiting on God… But He’s Waiting on You
What Joshua 3:15–17 teaches us about timing, faith, and clarity There’s a moment in life that many visionaries know too well. You’ve prayed.You’ve fasted.You’ve sought wise counsel.You’ve journaled until the ink ran dry. But you’re still standing at the edge…
Triggers vs Cause: Why You People Please Even When You Know Better
You said you wouldn’t say “yes” again when you really meant “no.”You told yourself you were done over-explaining.You promised not to twist yourself into a people-pleasing pretzel trying to avoid conflict. But here you are. Again. Sound familiar? Let me…
That Time a Birthday Cake Became a Lesson in Giving Up Control
What a birthday cake taught me about control, boundaries, and letting love truly listen.
Root or Fruit? Why What’s Showing Up Might Not Be What Needs Fixing
Have you ever wondered why the same issue keeps showing up in your life, just dressed differently? One week it’s procrastination. Another week it’s overwhelm. Sometimes it’s people-pleasing, and other times it’s that inner critic telling you you’re not enough….
